As a Ph.D. candidate in the social sciences more than 20 years ago, Duana Welch, 49, had done enough research to know the consequences she鈥檇 face by reporting sexual harassment in the workplace.
鈥淲hen women came forward with allegations of sexual abuse and sexual harassment, the woman was the person blamed and the woman was not believed,鈥 she said. 鈥淚 was very angry that I would pay the price for coming forward. I knew what would happen.鈥
Like most who鈥檝e had similar experiences, Welch, a relationship expert in Eugene, Ore., kept quiet. She wanted to bury the inappropriate encounters initiated by men who outranked her in the workplace. Welch worried that her fledgling career would be doomed.
That was until .
鈥淚 jumped in immediately,鈥 she said. 鈥淚 knew that this was our moment. It was the first time I became very public about abuses and inappropriate sexual conduct that I鈥檝e experienced.鈥
But figuring out why Welch and the millions who have posted on social media using #MeToo isn鈥檛 as simple as chalking it up to the power of the hashtag. Rather, a complex set of psychological and sociological factors is at work. Sparked by , the mushrooming list of accused harassers and those unwilling to stay silent any longer illustrate that what鈥檚 happening with this avalanche of disclosures is more than just a show of strength in numbers.
鈥淎dmissions of being a victim are stigmatizing,鈥 said John Pryor, a professor of psychology emeritus at Illinois State University who has studied sexual harassment for more than 30 years and is participating in a National Academy of Sciences study of sexual harassment in STEM fields 鈥 science, technology, engineering and mathematics.
鈥淩esearch has shown that people with stigmatizing conditions that can be hidden often engage in what is called 鈥榣abel avoidance.鈥 With regard to sexual harassment, the more people who come forward and say 鈥榤e, too,鈥 the less stigmatizing the label,鈥 he said.
Gayle Pitman, a professor of psychology and women鈥檚 studies at Sacramento City College in California, said the sense she鈥檚 gotten from the #MeToo posts are 鈥渁lmost like a catharsis.鈥
鈥溾楩inally, I can release this.鈥 There鈥檚 also some fear. 鈥榃hat happens now that I outed myself? What are people going to think of me and how am I going to feel now?鈥欌 she said. 鈥淭here is definitely a possibility of reliving a traumatic experience or dredging up past wounds. A lot of people who have been victims of sexual violence probably have untreated PTSD [post-traumatic stress disorder] and can lie dormant for a long time until something triggers it 鈥 even a deliberate disclosure.鈥
The risk of triggering a traumatic experience is lessened as more women step up and validate the experience. 鈥淵ou think less that it鈥檚 my fault and I did something wrong and you鈥檙e blaming yourself,鈥 said Lucia Gilbert of San Jose, Calif., a professor emerita of psychology at Santa Clara University. 鈥淚t validates that you have been validated. Now there鈥檚 a validation in the culture, and that鈥檚 huge.鈥
Social media is at the heart of this change, experts agree.
鈥淚t connects one person鈥檚 story to a much broader story and simultaneously creates heft to your story. It鈥檚 not just me. My voice is a part of this giant groundswell,鈥 said Amanda Lenhart, of the nonpartisan think tank New America, who has studied the internet and American life at the research institute Data & Society as well as at the Pew Research Center.
Although viewed as a critic of social media, psychology professor Jean Twenge of San Diego State University 鈥 whose book 鈥渋Gen: Why Today鈥檚 Super-Connected Kids Are Growing Up Less Rebellious, More Tolerant, Less Happy 鈥 and Completely Unprepared for Adulthood 鈥 and What That Means for the Rest of Us鈥 explores the detrimental effects of smartphones on youth 鈥 said the #MeToo trend illustrates the positives of social media.
鈥淚t allows people to band together and share their stories at lightning speed,鈥 she said. 鈥淭he workplace certainly ups the stakes for the person experiencing the sexual harassment, and it also ups the level of anger because you鈥檙e talking about someone鈥檚 livelihood. You鈥檙e talking about a career or feeding their kids. Part of the conversation is not just the Hollywood starlet but the cashier at the grocery store.鈥
Women may believe now is a safer time to disclose what they wouldn鈥檛 have before, said Gilbert.
鈥淲omen are speaking up, and the political environment feels different,鈥 she said. The on Jan. 21 鈥渨as huge. Women may better understand the importance of fighting for their rights.鈥
She suggests that change is possible when power shifts to more women at the top in certain traditionally male-dominated industries, such as the entertainment and media arenas, politics, the sciences and tech.
鈥淚t鈥檚 much harder to change the pattern of behavior and the sense of entitlement when you don鈥檛 change the power differential,鈥 Gilbert said.
In his 1995 study of more than 2,600 employees at a government agency with more than 8,000 employees in 37 offices nationwide, Pryor found that office norms and the workplace culture are underlying factors 鈥 which hasn鈥檛 really changed in the decades since.
鈥淚f you look at women in those offices, office by office, women were more likely to say they were sexually harassed in the offices where the men said it was tolerated,鈥 Pryor said.
Family law attorney Cindi Graham, 53, of Amarillo, Texas, knows all about how such behavior can be tolerated.
鈥淭here鈥檚 a lawyer who says inappropriate statements, and everybody just laughs and says that鈥檚 who he is,鈥 she said. 鈥淚t鈥檚 offensive. He鈥檒l blatantly stare at women鈥檚 breasts. He won鈥檛 go so far as grope, but he鈥檒l leer.鈥
Welch said the inappropriate behavior and harassment she experienced ranged from having a supervisor expose himself to her in his office (which caused her to quickly transfer and take a pay cut) to being harassed over a two-year period by a man whose office was located in her path.
鈥淗e had a lot of power, including power over my career,鈥 she said. 鈥淚 found another way to get into the building and he came to my office and said, 鈥業t鈥檚 starting to feel like you鈥檙e avoiding me.鈥欌
鈥淚n my early 20s, my story would have been an isolated event brushed away and me blamed for it,鈥 Welch said. 鈥淚 wanted to add to what I see is a really important cause. Now most people are believing us.鈥
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